You're covering for volunteers instead of developing them

this might sting Oct 24, 2026

For years I played bass on my own worship team whenever the scheduled bassist couldn't make it, which happened often enough that I basically became the backup bassist by default. I thought I was being helpful. I was actually preventing the team from ever solving its real problem, because I kept quietly absorbing the gap instead of forcing anyone to fix it.

This might sting, but if you're the one who always fills the hole when a volunteer falls through, you're not helping your team as much as you think you are.

The difference between covering and developing

Covering solves this Sunday. Developing solves the next two years of Sundays. They feel similar in the moment, both keep the service from falling apart, but they build completely different futures for your team. Covering leaves your bench exactly as thin as it was before. Developing actually grows it.

I covered gaps on my team for a long time because it was faster than training a backup, and because, honestly, it felt good to be needed in that way. That feeling should have been a warning sign, not a comfort.

Why leaders default to covering

I know what some of you are thinking. Patrick, sometimes covering is just the only option available that week. True, occasionally. But if you're honest, most covering isn't an emergency response, it's a pattern, and patterns reveal priorities. If covering has become your default rather than your exception, the real issue isn't your team's unreliability. It's that developing a bench takes more time upfront than covering does, and covering feels more urgent in the moment even though it's more expensive over time.

What developing actually requires

Developing a backup means identifying who could grow into a role before you desperately need them to, and investing in them before the crisis, not during it. It means someone on your team, maybe not your most skilled musician, but someone teachable, gets specific coaching on the part you keep having to cover yourself. It's slower at first. It's the only thing that actually fixes the gap permanently.

You know who your next worship leader is. You've probably known for a while. You just haven't invested in them yet, because covering the gap yourself has always felt more efficient than the slower work of developing someone else into it.

The conversation that starts this

This doesn't require an elaborate program. It requires you noticing a gap, thinking of one specific person with the raw capacity to grow into it, and having a direct conversation with them. Something as simple as, I've been covering this role myself for a while, and I think you could grow into it, would you be open to some coaching toward that. Most people say yes to being seen and invited, even when they wouldn't have volunteered on their own.

The long-term payoff

A team built on your ability to cover every gap is a team that depends on you indefinitely. That's not a team, that's a dependency, and it will eventually break under its own weight, usually right when you need a Sunday off the most. A team built on developed depth can survive your absence, your sabbatical, your eventual transition to something else, because the roles don't live only in your hands anymore.

I'm serious about naming the dependency piece, because it's uncomfortable to sit with. If your team would genuinely struggle to function without you personally covering three or four different roles, that's not evidence of your value. It's evidence of a structural risk you've been quietly carrying alone. The healthiest compliment a team can give a leader isn't "we can't function without you." It's "we're in good shape even on the week you're not here."

Starting the shift

If there's a role on your team you keep quietly filling yourself, stop this week. Name the person you think could grow into it. Have the conversation. It'll feel slower than covering it again. It's the only path to a team that doesn't need you to hold it together forever.

If you want to go deeper on this, I put together a free video training on how I build a worship team in New York City. You can watch it at nycworshipleader.com/team.

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